Is there one good way to find gay men that are interested in romance? Dance Club/ Lounge There are arguably as many gay men that dislike gay clubs and bars as there are that live for a weekend of dancing.Unfortunately, there is no holding tank for gay men waiting to be paired up nor is there a magic bullet to finding your personal homo hero. Clearly state what type of man you are looking for and under what circumstances you are willing to meet. Either way, for the party enthusiast, the club or lounge can be a great place to meet men.But never fret- there are many good places to find gay men willing to date. Online Chat Rooms/Dating Sites Are chat rooms and dating sites about sex or about love? Most chat rooms and dating sites leave it up to the seeker to let the general room population know if they are looking for Mr. Couch potatoes shouldn't feel left out though, smaller and less intimidating lounges can also be a great venue for gay men of all types.And of course, if you can get past the blatant displays of testosterone "heterosexual" clubs are also a good source.Many homosexuals go to straight clubs with their heterosexual friends and are often easy to spot.2.
More than likely you will run into another gay man at some point around town.
Of course, once you make contact the next step is up to you.1.
Referrals Referrals from friends, co-workers or family are hands down the best way to meet a guy. You'll be amazed at how many times you'll hear, "Now that you mention it, I do know a..." Despite these very effective places to meet gay men, it is important that you get out and meet people.
I'm not talking about the spin of the roulette wheel called a blind date, but an actual informal introduction arranged by a friend. Expanding your circle of gay friends can only lead to possibilities for romance. That will always remain the best method to finding a man.
Usually these begin with the standard, "I know this cute guy..." or "I think one of my co-workers is gay..." and end with "I can arrange for you guys to meet..." Even if you are shy or don't quite mesh with the "referral," take solace in the fact that they have other gay friends. If you are shy, take your time and ease your way onto the scene.