If the member has the instant messenger enabled, is online, and is not in stealth mode, you will see a button labeled Instant Message near the middle of the profile. In addition, any other search you conduct will show which members are online. From there, click the Who's Online link to see hundreds of online Mingle2 users. The easiest way to see other online people is to go to the Search tab.
In that box, you can choose whether to accept or decline the offer to chat.*note: If your IM is not working properly, make sure you have the latest version of Flash on your computer.Also, phones may not be compatible with the Mingle2 IM program.Click the My Account tab and then the Settings link near the top of the page.If you see a Turn Off Instant Messaging link, then you already have the instant messenger enabled.If you see a Turn On Instant Messaging link, you will want to click that link.When you view another member's profile on Mingle2, you will see a Nudge Him or Nudge Her button.If you click the button and choose one of the actions from the drop-down menu, that person will receive your nudge.In turn, the member may check out your profile, nudge you back, and/or send you a message.To see who has nudged you, just click on the Nudges link on your My Account page.If you have received a nudge, you will be able to check the profile of the person who sent it, nudge the person back, block the person, or simply remove the nudge. To do this, click the Mail tab, followed by the Filters link.